Marriages can certainly come to an end. It does not have to be the end of our journeys. Change can often be unwelcome, uncomfortable, or even frightening. Nevertheless, there is opportunity for positive change. If, after a divorce, we find ourselves alone, with less of what we once knew, indeed even with more time on our hands, it is more than possible to take this opportunity to indulge in life in ways that do not involve spouses or relationships, and that life is now granting us time to indulge in any multitude of interests or hobbies.
The mind can be one’s greatest enemy. Nothing can break us faster than that which stresses the mind out, sometimes even to the point of obsession. Obsessing is bad, and we all need balance. Now is the perfect time to let go of what you can’t control and protect your peace. Of course, that is easier said than done. Naturally, we are not ever islands in life; we may still have children to raise or jobs to do. Yet, even with responsibilities, exploring new hobbies after a divorce can be a powerful way to shift focus and rediscover joy.
Indulging in the Mind
As a lawyer, I have written extensively, primarily in the context of my family law practice. But our ability to write can be so much more than a professional skill; it can become a creative outlet. Do you like stories? Is it a stretch to imply you may have a story of your own to write? This could be a fictional tale or a memoir; the genres are near limitless. Whichever the case, spending time writing your ideas and stories can be deeply fulfilling, and who knows? Your story could even be shared with the rest of the world.